Pick-up artist: how to recognize a seducer

Pickup: history of its appearance

In English, "pick-up" means "to pick up, to hook up." The pick-up artist movement appeared in the United States in 1992. Lovelace gurus organized trainings for shy guys and taught them the art of seducing women.

With the help of various tricks, manipulations, and psychological techniques, pick-up artists quickly win the favor of a girl. Young men are not interested in long-term relationships. After the first sex, they disappear.

Soon, such courses appeared in Russia. Pick-up instantly gained popularity and grew into an entire ideology. Wanting to learn the intricacies of seduction, guys are ready to pay from $300 to $4,000 for a master class.

8 signs of a pick-up artist

Bright clothes

A pick-up artist is easy to recognize in a crowd by his appearance. He is dressed stylishly, neatly and tastefully. Most often, a seducer prefers black skinny trousers and a bright fitted shirt. The trousers are necessarily complemented by a belt with a heavy, massive buckle that can be seen from afar. A colored scarf or a narrow tie decorates the neck.

Regardless of the season, pick-up artists wear a fitted jacket. In winter, this wardrobe item is replaced by a light coat that is not designed for severe frosts. With this image, they demonstrate to girls that they just got out of the car and are indifferent to the weather. Their task is to stand out from other men at any cost.

Meeting place

The pick-up artist finds the "victim" in places suitable for flirting. Such acquaintance usually takes place in restaurants, clubs, bars. Sometimes seducers hone their skills on the street, at work or in shopping centers.

Original acquaintance

"Hello! How are you?" is too banal a phrase to start a conversation. Having found the "target", a real professional will definitely charm her with an unconventional way of acquaintance. The classic technique is to confuse you with a famous actress and ask for an autograph. It is difficult for a girl to resist such a skillful and artful seducer.

Tactile contact

A couple of minutes after the acquaintance, the pick-up artist unobtrusively tries to touch the girl - playfully hugs, straightens her hair, touches her accessories. At the same time, the seducer accompanies each of his movements with a compliment that can melt even the coldest heart. He is erudite, resourceful, has a good sense of humor. Communication with him is easy, without stress.

Stingy on treats

The main commandment of a pick-up artist is to seduce a girl and not spend a penny. When a guy sits down next to a girl in a cafe, he captivates her exclusively with conversation. Therefore, do not expect that you will be treated to coffee or a cocktail.

Unreasonable disappearance

The pick-up artist behaves assertively, forces events and does not give the girl time to come to her senses. In a matter of hours, he makes the interlocutor fall in love with him, takes her phone number and disappears. The seducer believes that by holding a pause, he will make you worry, miss you, which will intrigue you even more. Five days later, he calls and offers to meet.

An Unconventional Date

The traditional technique of a typical pick-up artist is to organize an incredible date that will make the girl's head spin. A womanizer is not going to take you to a movie, theater, or sushi bar. Such meetings usually take place outdoors. Get ready to visit romantic places and listen to amazing stories from life.

The best way to recognize a pick-up artist is to offer him your own version of a date. If he is categorically against it, then it's time to think about the purpose of the meeting.

Spontaneous Sex

The pick-up artist's task is to end the date with sex. At the same time, he will charm you so much that before you know it, you will find yourself in his arms. At best, a friend's apartment will be a place for privacy, at worst - a toilet stall or a bench in the park.

Girls who are not against short-term relationships calmly react to the offer of a womanizer. But if you are interested in a sincere relationship, then do not give in to the provocations of the seducer. To recognize a pick-up artist, carefully study all the signs.